We are fortunate to live in a world where communication is just the click of a button away. Bygones are the day when telegrams and post are the only means of communication. Many men have spent thousands of hours and lots of money to enable us to unite with somebody from one side of the planet to the other. However, the sad thing is that many people are losing communication with the one who are closest to them, like their partner. They give more time communicating with their colleague or business partner.
Many couple living under the same roof has this problem communicating with each other. They spent more time with their cell phone or the internet and lost interest in talking to the person who is close to them. When there is less communication in a relationship the first thing we see is sentences are interrupted before they are finish, a lot of misunderstanding appear in the conversations, the tension gets so high that you have no patience for your partner to finish and explode before understanding what your spouse wants to say. When both did not listen to each other, it hurts and it stays in the mind for a very long time.
Where there is no respect and humility there is no patience to listen. If you are therefore living this sad reality in your marriage, please start to change today, a good communication can be term as the strongest bond in a relationship.
Start learning how to listen, give time to express until the end, understand what your partner wants to say, do not interrupt in the middle even if you do not agree, wait until the end of the dialogue and then only express your point of view.
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