Sprinkle your communication with love, tenderness and understanding. Can anyone resist the sweet words of love? Can anyone write a love song without being in love? Isn’t a harsh word stir up anger? Follow the seven principles of good communication and save your marriage today.
1. Never ever share your intimate relationship under the mosquito net in public; it is the most important act of your relationship. It should be kept personal at all time. By sharing your sex life in public your partner may feel uncomfortable and can break the trust between the two.
2. Open your ears and listen to what your partner say. It is important to learn how to listen without imposing your own convictions.
3. Be flexible because inflexibility closes the door to conversation. Be wise like the serpents when you share your point of view as your inflexibility can close the heart of your partner.
4. A conversation with your partner must contain 85 percent of encouragement and only 15 percent of positive criticism. Therefore, know how to appreciate and encourage your partner. Even an old man loves to hear words of appreciation.
5. Speak out at the right time and at the right place. Listen to what your partner say, don’t break in the middle and speak.
6. Be open to communication, open your heart and share your feelings. When your partner talks, look into the eyes and give attention, it builds confidence.
7. Be honest and sincere, it’s important to tell the truth with love. Lies can solve the problem for the time being but in the end be careful, lies hurt more than the truth.
May you have a season of good talking, in a lovely and sweet way, a season of listening, with patience and love and start a new season in your marriage. Build your relationship brick by brick and plastered them with the seven principles.
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